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Offline athleticallyable

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Straight Male being fisted by man?
« on: January 29, 2010, 03:42:01 am »
I'm in a strange situation...I've been playing with toys for a while now and for just as long it has been my absolute aim to be fisted by a female.  Now is the tricky part, I am completely straight but am at the point where due to being unable to find any females into such things I find myself considering coming to an arrangement with a male top to fist me and satisfy this unbelievable desire!...  anyone else come up against such a situation before? ???

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Re: Straight Male being fisted by man?
« Reply #1 on: January 29, 2010, 04:34:18 am »
Can't relate 100 percent, but I know that I consider myself a straight woman but have CERTAINLY enjoyed the company of women. I don't think it's a man/woman thing - but a SEX thing. If you can't find a woman to meet your needs...why not a man? Why would we put inanimate objects in ourselves if it had to be totally same-sex. Frankly, as a woman, I'd say go for it. A man may have much more sensitivity to how you would feel. I know I'd love to do whatever my man asked, but sometimes I'm not sure if I could totally relate to how he feels. I've found myself being told be more gente, etc. Maybe a man could relate better.

OK - wrote way too much...just sharing my thoughts. Good luck and have fun. You must also write about the experience when it happens (better yet - photos/vids).

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Re: Straight Male being fisted by man?
« Reply #2 on: January 29, 2010, 12:11:17 pm »
Been there, did that!  No regrets whatsoever.  Given the right situation, the right individual, and clear expectations, it can be done.  As for me at that time, it was the only way I could accomplish what I had my mind really, really set on.  I believe that you will eventually figure out what is right for you.  Sorry, no pictures.  The agreement was no pics or names.  But, I was able to write about the experience.  Some of it can be found the stories section ...  Good luck on your quest!  ~F
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Re: Straight Male being fisted by man?
« Reply #3 on: January 29, 2010, 12:18:28 pm »
Just because you get fisted by a guy does not make you gay or bi, it is just getting enjoyment from fisting and you should not worry about it. Finding a guy to fist you might be the hard part.
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Re: Straight Male being fisted by man?
« Reply #4 on: January 29, 2010, 01:38:37 pm »
hmmmm no I have not but, I say as long as both of you understand your limits and that this is all you want from him no feelings are going to get hurt.  It's a big step, talk to him and do whatever you are comfortable with, goodluck!

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Re: Straight Male being fisted by man?
« Reply #5 on: January 29, 2010, 01:54:27 pm »
I am also in a similar predicament. I see nothing wrong with getting pleasure from who ever. I say go for it and let us know how it goes.

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Re: Straight Male being fisted by man?
« Reply #6 on: January 29, 2010, 08:11:49 pm »

No that in and of itself doesn't make you gay,but I would like to add that finding a gay male top that will be happy just fisting you and expecting nothing in return is not all that easy of a task either.

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Re: Straight Male being fisted by man?
« Reply #7 on: January 29, 2010, 09:12:17 pm »

Just another thought,please be very,very careful and don't settle for any top (there are some real bad ones) just  because you find one that is willing to come to an arrangement that you find acceptable.Experience and patience should be the overriding factors where fisting is concerned because much damage can be done.Since it doesn't seem that you plan for this to be a one time experience you may have to come to accept that  in exchange for finding a good caring top that knows what he is doing and will take care of your needs, that providing some minimal reciprocation to take care of his needs won't make you gay.

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Re: Straight Male being fisted by man?
« Reply #8 on: January 29, 2010, 09:27:03 pm »
I have had a gay friend who was really prized by two female friends of his for his love-making. Because he was not all that emotionally involved, his technique was really satisfying. However his disinterest was also intriguing to them, and they did fall in love. So there might be a danger of the gay man finding your emotional disinterest  too attractive. He might fall for you. If not, you are probably in for a great time.

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Re: Straight Male being fisted by man?
« Reply #9 on: January 30, 2010, 01:21:36 am »
Being Bi it's hard on one hand to answer this question because I know I would love to be fisted by either a guy or lady (open to offers BTW).

But on the other hand it is very easy for me to relate to your desire to be fisted and how the hunger grows unbearable some times and how it makes you feel, it can be hard to forget it when it gets to a  point that your lust just grows to much and the yearning gets hard to ignore.
 
Just as you said i'ts not that your looking especially for a guy your just looking for someone who can help fulfill your hunger to be fisted. I'm sure that if you had the chance you would pick a lady over a guy any day, i know I would

The feeling to be fisted by a man has nothing to do with being straight,bi or gay it has all to do with what your feeling inside some times which is not made any easier by the fact that it is very hard to find the right person either male or female who is willing to share the experience with you.

For me the sex of the person is not important as much as the understanding, desire and trust you have with each other.

Just my thoughts on it  :)
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Re: Straight Male being fisted by man?
« Reply #10 on: March 15, 2010, 07:00:35 am »
I have posted a fisting topic on craigslist to find like minded people in my area that I could ask questions, get tips etc... I got a ton of replies from straight men who offered to fist me under the conditions that they did not touch my penis, nor me touch theirs. They just wanted to experience fisting an ass.

Try to not focus on gay/straight and see encounters with others as a connection of souls.

When it comes down to it, its all about feeling good. If it feels good... do it, so harm it none.



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Re: Straight Male being fisted by man?
« Reply #11 on: March 18, 2010, 06:57:39 am »
Maybe you could try to find a mistress in your area. 

Depending on where you live (especially if it's a big city), there should be plenty.  I'm straight and personally would never consider a male top; but that's just me personally.

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Re: Straight Male being fisted by man?
« Reply #12 on: March 18, 2010, 05:03:14 pm »
Never been with a paid Mistress, are they expensive and do many specialise in fisting? Perhaps, as the old saying goes, a change is as good as a rest, and might try a paid one.
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Re: Straight Male being fisted by man?
« Reply #13 on: March 19, 2010, 03:35:47 am »
I doubt any Pro Mistresses in the USA would do fisting since that would likely be considered sexual contact, and if they get paid for it then it would be prostitution. You milage may vary in other countries.

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Re: Straight Male being fisted by man?
« Reply #14 on: March 19, 2010, 07:07:54 am »
Check in your area and check Craigslist.  I did a local search on google for fisting mistress with a number of cities and found a directory of mistresses.  From there, you could probably email one and discuss the details.

You probably want to check the local laws. 

I've seen plenty of posters say "My Mistress............"  Ask them how they got a mistress, or if it's just a name for their significant other they use while playing.

 


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