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Offline 6ymr47

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Rectum Pain During Large Insertion
« on: July 24, 2010, 04:51:44 pm »
Basiclly this is the prolbem. My wife seems to be progressing well with her stretching however during insertion of larger toys, etc she feels an intense pain in the rectum. This only occurs during large insertion, normal sex is fine. Bowel function is normal, etc. Any idea what is causing this? She is 28, wide pelvis, somewhat obese if that matters.

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Re: Rectum Pain During Large Insertion
« Reply #1 on: July 24, 2010, 09:35:54 pm »
 Sounds like the sphincter it's stretching as fast as you're trying. I'd suggest working your way up in dildo size each time and have her do deep breathes during which should help her relax more.
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Re: Rectum Pain During Large Insertion
« Reply #2 on: July 24, 2010, 10:03:12 pm »
Pain in the rectum can be caused by a lot of different things. all i can say is warm up using a smaller toy. use plenty of lube inside and out.and go very slow.using bigger toys can cause a burning feel from the stretching..sharp pains are not good, just go slow and enjoy the ride!.........

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Re: Rectum Pain During Large Insertion
« Reply #3 on: July 25, 2010, 01:22:30 pm »
An intense burning pain? Could it be she has developed an aleric reaction to latex or something?

If u try to fist here does the same thing happen? Have u tried using a condom over the dildo and see if that helps. Could be the lube as well. What kinf of lube do you use?

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Re: Rectum Pain During Large Insertion
« Reply #4 on: July 26, 2010, 11:25:16 pm »
Using "Sex Grease" or "J-Jelly" she says it feels like the anus is tearing although she has no pain in the vagina at all. She is up to about 9in im around toys now.

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Re: Rectum Pain During Large Insertion
« Reply #5 on: August 04, 2010, 07:31:43 pm »
Speaking as a woman, she shouldn't be having searing pain.  Anything past burning, and she might be doing damage.  I find that just getting more lube deep in the rectum, and I mean alot, usually helps.  Otherwise, she has gone too big too fast.  Pushing the body past it's limits are half the fun, but u gotta listen to ur body as well.

Keep Stretching!!
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Re: Rectum Pain During Large Insertion
« Reply #6 on: August 10, 2010, 05:31:11 pm »
Speaking as a woman, she shouldn't be having searing pain.  Anything past burning, and she might be doing damage.  I find that just getting more lube deep in the rectum, and I mean alot, usually helps.  Otherwise, she has gone too big too fast.  Pushing the body past it's limits are half the fun, but u gotta listen to ur body as well.

Keep Stretching!!

For the anus I recommend a mix of oil based lubes and water based. Apply a generous amount of something like vaseline to coat the inner lining of her ass and then use water based. it will keep things slick and protect the lining as well.

 


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