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Offline ultrapervert

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Re: Long lasting effects of Anal fisting
« Reply #15 on: January 11, 2009, 06:00:40 pm »
Interesting info. I have played with my ass since over 6 years I think. I really get off by bigger and thicker things to put inside, and it gets easier and easier over time. So I was also starting to worry about the long-term effects. Seem's I'm doing okay :)

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Re: Long lasting effects of Anal fisting
« Reply #16 on: January 12, 2009, 04:06:54 am »
Ive been playing with my ass for over 8 years and Ive never had any real issues. When I started there was some bleading but thats normal when you stretch too fast  ;D
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Re: Long lasting effects of Anal fisting
« Reply #17 on: January 12, 2009, 03:49:16 pm »
I have been dilating my ass and enjoying fisting for 25+years, and have never had any problems. I do find that if one doesn't keep at it, the anus will tighten back up, and the stretching process will hae to begin again. Granted, once stretched, it doesn't take long to re-stretch back to previous dimensions. As far as only your wife being the one to get analy fisted, all I can say is, try it, you will be surprised at how you will feel. Good luck, go slow, use lots of lube, and enjoy.
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Re: Long lasting effects of Anal fisting
« Reply #18 on: January 14, 2009, 12:53:52 am »
I have been dilating my ass and enjoying fisting for 25+years, and have never had any problems. I do find that if one doesn't keep at it, the anus will tighten back up, and the stretching process will hae to begin again. Granted, once stretched, it doesn't take long to re-stretch back to previous dimensions. As far as only your wife being the one to get analy fisted, all I can say is, try it, you will be surprised at how you will feel. Good luck, go slow, use lots of lube, and enjoy.

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Re: Long lasting effects of Anal fisting
« Reply #19 on: January 17, 2009, 06:22:16 am »
Definately agree with MandK and everyone else - Fisting does not cause incontinence.
I wholeheartedly agree with everyone else. Fisting does not cause incontinence.

I also have been dilating my ass and enjoying fisting for 30+years, and I also find that you need to keep at it!
I have been dilating my ass and enjoying fisting for 25+years, and have never had any problems. I do find that if one doesn't keep at it, the anus will tighten back up, and the stretching process will hae to begin again. Granted, once stretched, it doesn't take long to re-stretch back to previous dimensions. As far as only your wife being the one to get analy fisted, all I can say is, try it, you will be surprised at how you will feel. Good luck, go slow, use lots of lube, and enjoy.

Enjoy yourselves and play safe!
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Re: Long lasting effects of Anal fisting
« Reply #20 on: January 26, 2010, 02:10:30 am »
Yeah, same here! I've been fisting my ass for the last 10 years. I have a fantastic degree of control over my bowels at this time, and my ass is stretched as far as pelvis allows it. Never had dirty accident in my life.

Chipster is absolutely right, ass tends to regain it's tightness in matter of days. As far as my ass, if I don't stretch for more than a week I have to go trough the stretching process again. Basic two things to remember is to relax, go slow, and use good lubricant.

Every other "anal sex" web site tells you to relax, but they don't tell you how, what do you need to feel inside to know that you're on the right track. Since I'm trying to fist my ass past my wrist for the last year I had to find a way to relax my internal muscles. I incidentally discovered what the term "relaxation" means.

It goes like this: put yourself in a comfortable position, try experimenting-it can take few attempts to find the position that suits you best. Then use dildo, hand, butt plug, what ever is your weapon of choice, and push it in as far as you feel comfortable. The moment you feel discomfort you should stop at that depth\width...
Now comes the relaxing part: close your eyes, slow down your hart rate, and try to feel your bowels. Concentrate hard, don't let your brain to think about anything else, and try to achieve some kind of mild "hypnotic tranquility". Visualize your bowel muscles, and try to tell them to relax.

My hand is my personal choice because I can feel better what is going on inside.  

Staying focused is the hardest part. In no time you'll find yourself thinking about a football match, and not paying any attention to your main goal. Give yourself some time, and practice. Over time you'll be able to literally tell your muscles to relax, and achieve full stretch in matter of minutes.

This is especially important when you're going past the wrist. Relaxing the muscles that form the sigmoid bend is the key here.

Stretching the asshole is basically the same, but in the beginning pay close attention not to overstretch or you'll end up with a sore ass. It's not a big deal injury, but more important it prevents you from "practicing" for a week or two, and you'll have to do the stretching work all over again.

Hope this helps...
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Re: Long lasting effects of Anal fisting
« Reply #21 on: January 05, 2014, 01:29:24 am »
well first of all, sorry for the bump. This is my first visit here and I noticed that this thread is most on topic with what I want to post. anyway, let me get to it.

I'm still quite young (in my first year of media university) and I've discovered anal masturbation while ago.. when I was still a minor.
At the time I started with rather small objects and I was like wow, I can fit something in there and it kinda feels good. over the time I "leveled up" to bigger things and now I can easily take something that's like an inch wide (or well, up to like 3cm)

Due to my age, even now and the fact that I'm still living in the family house, there's no way that I can order a sex toy or a real lubricant (I can, but there's no guarantee that: 1) i'll be at home, 2) someone else will open the package, 3) package will be delivered at someone else's location)
All 3 situations happened already. Multiple times.

While I realized that I can stretch myself this way (which in the end, is my objective) I'm getting.. not sure if this is the right word, but oh well, I'm getting scared of any unwanted things to happen. Things like prolapse etc. so I did some research and stumbled upon this forum/topic and decided to ask you, more experienced people, for help and tips because I really like this and I'm not interested in stopping quite yet. My girlfriend is aware of this too and if everything's a-ok we might do something. (Personally it kinda feels better being a "penetratee" then being the "penetrator" (Unless I'm doing myself, obviously).

back on the main subject,
In the end my goal is to be able to fist myself /have someone else fist me, but as I mentioned, I'm not sure if anything will/can happen that I do not want.

widest thing I managed to get in there is about 4cm in diameter and biggest thing that's not round was a head&shoulders shampoo. (the smaller bottle, not the big one and that was yesterday because I'm not at home and got kind off desperate. yeah, I'm a weird guy)
from time to time I prefer taking a quick enema with a shower hose (without the shower head on) to "flush" whatever's  up there.. nothing big, lets say like, few flushes with each containing about 1-2dl of warm water.

as for lubricants I mostly use my spit
on 2-3 desperate occasions I resorted to shampoo (which I know is not safe at all, but I couldn't help myself at the time.)
on a few more occasions I used normal household vegetable oil (not sure if it's safe, some sources say okay, some sources say no.)

This is my first post and I never was really good with writing something like this (can't really say that I talked about this either.. only my current girlfriend knows besides me) so please forgive me. I'm not sure if I missed anything, but I'll gladly answer whatever the question is.
thank you (:

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Re: Long lasting effects of Anal fisting
« Reply #22 on: January 05, 2014, 05:12:46 am »
You should try and use a real lube. If your doing anal on yourself you will just hinder progress and hurt yourself without it. It seems weird but if nothing else is available just use crisco. It works really well and is easy to get from the kitchen. Just bake something and go out and buy a huge can and leave it in the kitchen. Then you can get small amounts whenever you need. Put a towel or old clothes down though cause it gets messy. I have gotten pretty advanced and I haven't noticed many side effects. Gets really addictive though especially if you got someone to help. it didn't take me long to go from nothing to my girlfriends hand, probably just a couple weeks. Good luck and have fun.

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Re: Long lasting effects of Anal fisting
« Reply #23 on: January 05, 2014, 01:57:48 pm »
Thanks for a fast reply, and thanks for reassuring me.
However, getting crisco is pretty much impossible since such a thing doesn't even exist here, but oh well, I'll figure something out.

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Re: Long lasting effects of Anal fisting
« Reply #24 on: January 05, 2014, 02:32:40 pm »
Hi, and first of all welcome!  You do ask some good questions.

Yes, lubricant is key if not critical for a good enjoyable experience.   There are lots of adequate lubricants out there, and a lot of very good ones.  Spit really isn't good at all, vegetable oil is ok, olive oil is a little better.  Consider some basics.  Vaseline (just ok), Baby Oil (better), Baby Oil Gel (much better).  Some non-perfumed moisturizing lotions will work.  I have a little tube of Shea Butter.  Good for an 'emergency'  Also, there are medical grade lubricants, like KY-Jelly.  Many drug and chain stores do sell 'personal lubricants', which are always near the condoms.  Good lube is out there and extremely accessible.

Next ... as for obtaining sex toys, there are many storefront shops out there, again you might need to search a little ... and then deal with going in ... and buying something.  It's part of the experience  But, in the meantime, there are soooo many items in a house, one of my favorite ... Vegetables!  There are just so many things that can be used ... and worked to going bigger and bigger and bigger.   Carrots, cucumbers, zucchini, summer squash (love the big end and the narrow neck), the list is endless.  Just go to a market, and pick up some things for a ... Salad.  Once used, these are easily disposed in the trash.

Good luck on your journey!  Keep us posted.  ~f
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Re: Long lasting effects of Anal fisting
« Reply #25 on: January 05, 2014, 02:56:49 pm »
Ok ... I re-read your post and got more.

Not a fan of shampoo ... too harsh.  However, hair conditioner (right next to the shampoo) works really well.  As for the shampoo bottle ... that's a good start.  Plastic bottles are great to play around with.  Notice I said PLASTIC.  Glass ... well, that has a possibilty of not ending well.  Go to the store ... look for plastic containers.  Water bottles ... shampoo bottles ... the list is endless.  Go for the heavier plastics, these stand up much better to the abuse.  Fill it up with warm water ... another experience all together.

One of my favorites is a stubby spray bottle that is about 2.5 inches across.  I fill it up with very warm water, put a cap on it and slide it in.  The heat is incredible.  After a while, I fill it with cold water ... just imagine THAT sensation.

POM bottles are wonderful.  The smaller one is probably the closest thing you will get to a butt-plug without buying a real one.  And the big one ... if you master that, you can most definitely handle a fist!

As for the original question, there is not much danger or harm as long as you go slow, take your time, use lots and lots and lots of lubricant, and listen to your body.  Stop if it hurts too much.  Don't rush it.  Have fun!
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Re: Long lasting effects of Anal fisting
« Reply #26 on: January 07, 2014, 09:33:52 am »
Thanks felch! :)

I already am aware how lubricant is very important. on a few occasions where I just feel like getting a butt plug in and just work on my projects (basically just sitting around behind a desk) I sometimes have issues with even something that easy and small just because I'm not lubed up.

Thanks for clearing up the question about vegetable oil, that is something that I can most easily obtain. Anything else is still kind of impossible for me.
1) There are no sex shops in my city + I live 10 km from it (I live on the country side)
2) I kind of have a "shadow" personality and I hate "being in the light" and draw attention. I prefer being the guy in the back with low presence. especially when it comes to something like this. I guess another way to put it is that I have very low confidence and I over think everything which makes going out and buying things that a huge problem. "what will the clerk think?" "will someone I know see me?" etc.
I grew up in a kind of society where being special in something would result in being shunned so it's not really a "sissy" personality.. It's merely a habit to keep to myself.

I will try with more vegetables though since that's easy to get. My only question is, is it really necessary to use condoms or is that only preferred?

I do have some plastic bottles, but with my father being a collector of small liqour bottles, I can easily take one without him noticing..  they're nothing huge, but what I'm using right now is perfect. I had issues with it 2-3 months ago, but aprox. a month ago I managed to squeeze it in, and now I'm fine with it (hey, it's an achievement regardless!)

Thanks for suggesting that I fill the bottles with warm water, I didn't think of that before (though once I filled a water bottle with enema)

Thanks for the suggestions and tips, I really appreciate it! I guess I could say this line of a song I know when it comes to anal play: "If it feels so good then it can't be wrong!"
am I right?! ;)

 


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