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Hypnosis and Sex/Fisting
« on: January 14, 2010, 06:44:44 pm »
OK, I'm posting this here instead of the General Forum because I want to discuss the technical aspects, how to's, tips AND Opinions on sexual Hypnosis.  In particular, how it pertains to Fisting.

First, I've never been hypnotized. It's been tried, but I am very strong willed with a touch of OCD and ADD.  (Yeah, my shrink loves me!!!)  That means that, I have trouble focusing on one thing for very long, because I start OBSESSING over something else, like paying bills and such.

Anyway - A couple of years ago I came across the site "Warp My Mind."  I love some of their scripts and how they pertain to domination. 

I've been wondering how hypnosis might HELP someone that is having trouble relaxing enough to take larger objects or be fisted. You know, the people that, while they could physically take it, they just can't get relaxed enough.  Particularly, the people that rely on POPPERS.

Also, what about a willing sub that, while under, you use her/him, stuff them, fist them, do all kinds of things to them, then, make them forget.  So that, they only know about it when you show them videos/pictures you made of it.

Any sub's want to chime in on their take of being hypnotized and used?

Any one with experience (good or bad)?
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Re: Hypnosis and Sex/Fisting
« Reply #1 on: January 30, 2010, 06:40:02 pm »
Well, If you’re talking about types of Sensory Deprivation, then a very interesting subject….

I have had several extremely intense sensory deprivation experiences absolutely mind blowing, but normally short term as a prelude to or part of a session, so not in the therapeutic or clinical sense of the word.
I seriously enjoy a submissive role, and have experienced some extreme multi-domina and bizarre lady sessions, absolute heaven, to be recommended, however serious danger of repeats!!!

I do not think that I would like to be hypnotized, but a great feeling to be in the control of someone else in a power exchange, personally I don’t think that I would like to not remember, I normally want to be in control, aware of  surroundings and scene, and savor every moment. I would certainly not want to forget some of my experiences and have many fond memories, some even vividly.

Much as I enjoy poppers, procaine and indeed most stimulants, I don't really find them necessary to make me more relaxed, I use these rather to reduce my inhibitions or relax and enhance the experience and give an out of this world feeling or transcending astral travel type of trip. The feelings of relaxation warmth and well being are unreal.  8)


Here's an article on Sensory Deprivation:

Definition:   
"Sensory deprivation: Restricting or diluting a submissive's ability to use one or more of  his/her senses of touch, hearing, sight, taste, or smell as a part of an SM scene."
[Miller and Devon, "Screw the Roses, Send me the Thorns."]

Effects:
"Partial sensory deprivation, including changes in patterns and relationships of sensory input, cause a state of relaxation conductive to an altered state.  Awareness of one's surroundings remains and hypnagogic activity is likely to occur.  A reduction of external stimuli allows an individual to focus inward due to the absence of attending to a sensory input.  Altering sensory perception allows for a focusing of the mind which in time produces an altered state.  Relaxation, time to think without distractions, vivid imagery, and feelings of love and warmth are common experiences."  [Wallace and Fisher, 1991]

http://hypnagogic.org/
hypnagogic (also hypnogogic)
        1.Inducing sleep; soporific
        2.Of or relating to the state preceding sleep.

"The sudden de-stimulation of large areas of the nervous system triggers a spontaneous chain reaction throughout the body known as the parasympathetic response. Muscle tension, blood pressure, heart rate and oxygen consumption all drop dramatically. The whole chemistry of the body changes.

Blood vessels including capillaries dilate, improving cardiovascular efficiency and increasing the supply of oxygen and nutrients to every single cell in your body. This is called the vasodilatory effect

Stress related chemicals such as adrenaline, cortisol, ACTH and lactate are removed from the bloodstream and replaced by beneficial endorphins. High levels of cortisol and ACTH are known to weaken the body's immune system and create feelings of depression, while lower baseline levels are associated with feelings of dominance and confidence.

The endorphin - only discovered by NIMH researchers in 1976 - is literally the essence of pleasure. The body's endorphin level is what makes some people naturally happy and others less so. Sometimes called "the body's natural opiate", the endorphins released while floating create intense feelings of well-being, alleviating fatigue and chronic pain, as well as improving many of the higher brain functions such as memory and learning.  Happiness is not an illusion - it is an endorphin.

These biochemical changes occur naturally and spontaneously as by-products of deep sensory relaxation. No training or techniques are required.  Just lie back and let it happen. Oh its very nice

Why do in BDSM?
1.   Control  
2.   Enhancing the Other Senses
3.   Anticipation

What senses can you control?
1.   Sight
2.   Sound
3.   Smell
4.   Taste
5.   Touch
6.      Breath control with or without poppers, cling film etc

How can you control Sight?
1.   Blindfold
2.   Hood
3.   Eye patches
4.   Silk Scarf
5.   Soft Cloth
6.   Feminine Napkin (disposable) 
7.   Vet Wrap

How can you control Hearing?
1.   Ear Plugs
2.   Padded Ear Covers
3.   Hood
4.   Cotton Balls
5.   Headphones 

How can you control Smell?
1.   Cover nose with tape, cotton, or band-aid
2.   Vic's Vapor Rub
3.   Orange Wedge as gag

How can you control taste?
1.   Gag
2.   Orange
3.   Lemon
4.   Fruit inside a Condom
5.   Peppermint Stick

How can you control feel?
1.   Pallet Wrap
2.   Duct Tape
3.   Mittens
4.   Latex
5.   Rubber
6.   Body Temperature Water

What happens to the bottom when they are deprived of some of the senses?
1.   Change in Attitude
2.   Uncertainty
3.   Strain to Use Remaining Senses
4.   Increased Brain Activity
5.   Over Sensitivity to Events
6.   Vulnerability
7.   Powerlessness
8.   Fear
9.   Anxiety
10.   Loss of Assurance
11.   Building Anticipation
12.   Magnification of Remaining Senses
13.   Enhancement of Importance of Small Things
14.   Freedom

What happens to the Dominant when they deprive the bottom of some of the senses?
1.   Sense of Power
2.   Cat and Mouse Games
 
A Word or two of Caution
1.   Trust is paramount for a successful sensory deprivation scene
2.   Try one or two senses at a time
3.   Go slowly, ease into the scene
4.   Great deal of reassurance
5.   Watch the body for signals and changes in breathing, heartrate, perspiration, etc.
6.   Leave yourself a quick reinstatement method for the senses, bottoms can panic
7.   Use a very safe environment as the bottom will be unable to protect themselves
8.   Come up with an alternative method for safe wording

So stay safe, sane and consensual and enjoy, this has given me some nice ideas, would love to see these lists added to or hear of other's personal experiences ;D.

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